“I know a Kourageous Kid,” says Patra, mom of eight-year-old ASK Kid Brendan. “He’s teaching me the true meaning of love,” she continues. “He never gives up and his strength is inspirational. He never complains but is not afraid to tell us of his pain and symptoms. He asks questions and stays informed on treatment. He respects and admires his doctors and nurses. He is creative and kind. He has an amazing spirit. He is always up for a challenge and is fighting the challenge of his young life. My son has cancer, and every day, I wish cancer didn’t know my child’s name, but I know he will win this fight.”
Last year, Brendan was diagnosed with Leukemia. After several trips to the pediatrician for a cough and ear infection, a simple blood test revealed low hemoglobin. He was sent to the Children’s Hospital of Richmond at VCU where a pediatric oncologist awaited him and so did ASK’s in-clinic support team. He began chemotherapy and went into remission just three weeks after starting treatment.
Eight-year-old Brendan, a bright young reader and math enthusiast, was determined to stay engaged in his studies despite undergoing treatment. With the dedicated support of ASK Education Support Navigator, Jon Longenecker, Brendan made a smooth transition back to the classroom this year. He's now thriving academically and has achieved AB honor roll!
ASK’s educational team will continue to support him throughout his school career, including career counseling as he transitions into young adulthood.
"I didn't think I was deserving of financial help, so I was beyond grateful when ASK offered to pay our electric bill and had our car serviced at Midas of Richmond so that we had air conditioning in our car this summer. These people are so kind and continually provide emotional and financial support when we need it most. They have changed our lives with their generosity.” - Patra ASK Kid Brendan's Mom
As Brendan continues to heal, he looks forward to participating in the many ASK programs and events. Patra recognizes the invaluable support offered by connecting with other families navigating the challenges of childhood cancer. "I love the ASK-sponsored opportunities to support and be supported by people who truly understand what we're facing on a day-to-day basis. Without ASK, we wouldn't have this vital network."
Brendan still has a long road ahead of him but is now in the maintenance phase of treatment, taking daily oral chemotherapy, a regular routine of antibiotics and a lumbar puncture infusion one time per month. Patra's hope for the future is echoed by many parents facing similar challenges. "One day my son will ring the bell. I'll be by his side to cheer him, and so will the people of ASK. We're all in this fight together!"